New Care Givers - Part 4

We have been posting ideas for newer family care givers, with hopes of helping people more easily adapt to these life-changing situations.

 

Along those lines, you might find it helpful to take advantage of community resources such as Meals on Wheels and adult day care programs.

 

These resources are available so that you don't have to do everything yourself, and to give you a break.

 

You can also see if there are caregiver classes and workshops offered in your community your local Caregiver Resource Center or Area Agency on Aging. These education programs will help you feel more confident and make the time you spend caregiving easier for both you and your loved one.

New Care Givers - Part 3

Continuing with our caregiver theme, if you're just starting out as a family caregiver, it's hard to know where to begin.

In our previous post we identified two initial steps you might consider taking to get started in a positive and productive way. 

Another suggestion you might find helpful is to invite family and close friends to come together and discuss your loved one's care. If possible, your loved one should be included in the meeting.

When you convene, you might list the tasks that are needed so they can be more easily divided up. Let everyone discuss their concerns, as well as how much and what kind of help each person can offer.

As the primary caregiver, it's best for you to focus on accepting what assistance your friends and family are offering, even if it's not exactly what you had in mind.

New Care Givers - Part 2

As noted in our previous post, if you're just starting out as a family caregiver, it's hard to know where to begin. Here are two initial steps you might consider taking:

1. Start with a diagnosis.  If your loved-one is going through a noticeable personality change, has become more forgetful, or seems consistently out-of-sorts, take them to a physician.
2. Talk with your loved-one about their situation, health, financial circumstances and health-care wishes or expectations. If he or she is able to complete a Durable Power of Attorney for finances and healthcare, assist them in meeting with an elder law specialist to create these documents.

Are You a New Caregiver?

Recent statistics indicate almost one-quarter of American households provide care to relatives or friends age 50 or older.

If you're just starting out as a family caregiver, it's hard to know where to begin. Perhaps you've only recently realized that a loved one needs assistance, and is no longer as self-sufficient as he or she once was; or perhaps there has been a sudden change in a loved-one's health.

If so, it's time to consider and take certain action steps.

You might begin by taking stock of the people, services and information that will help you care for your loved one. The earlier you find support, the better.

 

We will share additional ideas for new caregivers over the next few posts.

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Fiduciary Defined

Sometimes people ask for a more clear definition of the term fiduciary, and we came upon this straightforward definition recently and thought we would share it with you.

A fiduciary is an individual, corporation or association holding assets for another party, often with the legal authority and duty to make decisions regarding financial matters on behalf of the other party.

It is usually best to consult your attorney or a trusted advisor if you feel you or your family could benefit by entering into a fiduciary relationship.

Could Your Family Benefit From a Fiduciary?

Over the past several years we have frequently been called-upon to serve in a fiduciary capacity for clients.

As you may know, a fiduciary is a legal or ethical relationship of trust between two or more parties; one party acts in a fiduciary capacity to the other one, who vests their confidence, good faith, reliance and trust to the fiduciary, whose aid, advice or protection is sought in some matter.

In such a relation, good conscience requires the fiduciary to act at all times for the sole benefit and interest of the one who trusts. A fiduciary duty is the highest standard of care at either equity or law.

Several of our earlier posts have referenced the challenges many families face when caring for aging parents or settling their estates. Should your family encounter stress or discomfort due to these or similar circumstances, it can be comforting to know that a trusted advisor such as your estate planning or elder law attorney can also serve in a fiduciary capacity.

Caregiver Series: Three More Critical Areas of Focus

As many of you are well aware, caregiving can be an emotional rollercoaster and there is often the inclination to forget one’s own needs.  

In one of our April posts we noted three areas in which caregivers should take care of themselves. Here are three additional and equally-important considerations for family caregivers:

1. Join a support group.
2. In addition to talking to your loved one's physician about the needs of your loved one, talk to your physician about your needs and what is going on with you.
3. Manage your stress, exercise, get respite and take time for you.